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Letter To Mothers

We all know that kids, could be really overbearing atimes, as they tend to push us to the wall, hence most mothers are left with no choice but to flog the living daylight out of their kids, in an attempt to instill discipline in them.
Just so you know,Not every child, heeds correction by being flogged. Some kids tend to become very stubborn with the more floggings they recieve.

Do not flog your child all the time, in a bid to instill discipline in him/her. There are other ways of correcting an erring child. . .for instance,You can ground him/her or Cease his/her favorite toys, or See to it that, he/she does'nt watch his/her favorite cartoon, Afterwhich you sit your child down, and explain to your child, the rationale behind your actions.No matter what happens, never ever starve your child in an attempt to discipline that child, if you do, you automatically tempt that child into stealing!
Suffice to say that.It is very wrong to issue threats which you will never carry out on your child. For instance, threatening your child with the fact that you will report him/her to a
masqurade that will amputate his/her limbs as a result of his/her disobedience.....In the end, no masqurade from nowhere will come implement your threat. Doing this, only makes your child grow more wings because he/she knows you're fond of empty threats. 
Spare the rod and spoil the child....yes! But Be flexibly rigid. What you will not tolerate, do not tolerate it. Watch and observe your child, and find out which works best for you, find out his/her weakness and use it to the fullest for instance;..if he/she is a child that does'nt like being embarrassed, then go ahead and publicly embarrass him/her so badly, he/she will never want a repeat of such embarrassment again, hence that child will always thread with caution and not misbehave.Do not form a habit of, shouting endlessly at the top of your lungs all day, in a bid to drive your point home, shouting will never make you heard, it will only make you loud and you will be saddled with a stubborn child or children as the case may be, and a nasty headache in the long run.so ma'am, speak to your child with empathy, and you will be heard.Above all, never compare your child to any other child,doing so, kills a child's self esteem.

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