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I got married on Saturday 20th of February 2016. We were in an hotel till Monday, wanted us to stay longer but she refused saying she wants to go home ( that used to be my house).
Ever since we got home yesterday ( Monday), she has been crying. Called her mom, she prayed for her, my mom called her too and prayed for her.
She stopped crying for a while, we woke up with another round of crying this morning.
This is breaking my heart. I hate to cry as it often leads me to depression now I am close to tears myself.
I don't know if I have done something wrong or what to do. It is hurting as she cries.
When we were dating, she finds it difficult without her family for long " oh, I am already missing my dad, I am already missing my siblings" could this be the reason?
One day she came to mine from home as we have Dr appointment early and she lives in another state, she got to mine and 1 hour later she wanted to go home. "I am missing my dad sha" which got me annoyed then.
Could it be that the crying now is linked? She is 25 and I am 30 and we spent quite some time together before marriage. The fact we used to be together for so long makes it more confusing. This is a house she has always been in why the crying now?
It is hurting me. Badly and I am confused.
What do I do?
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I got married on Saturday 20th of February 2016. We were in an hotel till Monday, wanted us to stay longer but she refused saying she wants to go home ( that used to be my house).
Ever since we got home yesterday ( Monday), she has been crying. Called her mom, she prayed for her, my mom called her too and prayed for her.
She stopped crying for a while, we woke up with another round of crying this morning.
This is breaking my heart. I hate to cry as it often leads me to depression now I am close to tears myself.
I don't know if I have done something wrong or what to do. It is hurting as she cries.
When we were dating, she finds it difficult without her family for long " oh, I am already missing my dad, I am already missing my siblings" could this be the reason?
One day she came to mine from home as we have Dr appointment early and she lives in another state, she got to mine and 1 hour later she wanted to go home. "I am missing my dad sha" which got me annoyed then.
Could it be that the crying now is linked? She is 25 and I am 30 and we spent quite some time together before marriage. The fact we used to be together for so long makes it more confusing. This is a house she has always been in why the crying now?
It is hurting me. Badly and I am confused.
What do I do?
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I think u should take her to your pastor ,she need to be encouraged, she need some words of encouragement and ask her if there is anything she need u to know before both of you go to see your pastor or any believing church pastor that you know,thank u.
ReplyDeleteTry to find out whether you've wrong her in any way. Being so closed to her family may not be the reason, if she was to cry, it could b the next day to the wedding. Anyway, seeing ur pastor is a good idea for divine encouragement n solution. May God help you, and don't b upset as to her behaviour. Tnx
ReplyDeleteMaybe she has a secret, find out. Wish u luck. I got married at 20 n neva cried.
ReplyDeleteSee people who have experience in marriage that they are doing well let them encourage you guys and add ferveny prayer
ReplyDeleteSee people who have experience in marriage that they are doing well let them encourage you guys and add ferveny prayer
ReplyDeleteTry to find out what's wrong with her ,if it's possible let her visit her parent.I really want to believe she is aware dat marriage means you live with ur husband and not ur parent anymore.good luck
ReplyDeleteJust try to find out if she has a secret she has been hiding ,try to take her to a pastor for prayers and advice on martial life. And please don't get upset with her act. There could be reasons behind her tears.best of luck in your marital life.thanks.
ReplyDeleteI know what is wrong with her. She committed an abortion that spoilt her womb and now she is married her past will catch up with her. That is why she is crying and she cannot tell anyone no matter how you ask
ReplyDeleteSorry but with dis action something may b fishy between she and her father who she is so fond of, try to find out from her siblings how her dad himself feels since she left d house that way it will b clearer, for me there is more to this than what u can imagine trust me and also talk to your pastor about this. Goodluck
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