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Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.
I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.
All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight
He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.
The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.
There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.
I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.
I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.
I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.
Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.
Please advice. I don’t need abuse from you guys… Thanks
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Hello, yes your mother might be right. From the begining, all the guys that came your way knows you before you even see them. It was all planned from people that knows you. In your family, friends, working place.
ReplyDeleteMy advice for you is two.
1. Leave everything and get lost for years without telling anybody. Go to area people that knows you least expect you to see you. And dont take anything than normal cloth and you go there and rent a room. Even do a petiti job there. When a guy aproeches you during this period, dont give 100% answer. let me know By my contact and I shall tell you what to do to him next.
2. Use dating site but do not put your picture, name, and any of your original information. Use fake information. but state it there that you need God fearing man to start life with. Remenber, dont say you have a job and dont use a beautiful girl picture nor ugly as well. they will come. when the come reply them in free way. let me know, And i shall tell you what you need to do to test them. Note, they will say dirty thing at first, dont worry. my number is 08062894950 & mail: yemiraji80@gmail.com
I wish you best of luck and be careful not to leak this secret to anyone around you. only trust yourself. your mother might even arrainge man for you. But you cant blame her. she doing what a mother will do. So dont tell her too. but makes her happy.
Hello, yes your mother might be right. From the begining, all the guys that came your way knows you before you even see them. It was all planned from people that knows you. In your family, friends, working place.
ReplyDeleteMy advice for you is two.
1. Leave everything and get lost for years without telling anybody. Go to area people that knows you least expect you to see you. And dont take anything than normal cloth and you go there and rent a room. Even do a petiti job there. When a guy aproeches you during this period, dont give 100% answer. let me know By my contact and I shall tell you what to do to him next.
2. Use dating site but do not put your picture, name, and any of your original information. Use fake information. but state it there that you need God fearing man to start life with. Remenber, dont say you have a job and dont use a beautiful girl picture nor ugly as well. they will come. when the come reply them in free way. let me know, And i shall tell you what you need to do to test them. Note, they will say dirty thing at first, dont worry. my number is 08062894950 & mail: yemiraji80@gmail.com
I wish you best of luck and be careful not to leak this secret to anyone around you. only trust yourself. your mother might even arrainge man for you. But you cant blame her. she doing what a mother will do. So dont tell her too. but makes her happy.
All you need is God, the man you are looking for is right beside you, but you are so confused that you cant just notice him. Draw closer to God and he will open your eyes to see what you need to see. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteToo long an advice...simply put, shed ur baggage go to God in prayers and stop searching for a man. Search for God and he will give you the right man. It's not wrong to be prosperous. But don't seek for a man at ur own selfish interest rather let God open ur eyes to see ur husband, he could just be around u all this while but ur yes are closed to him, probably all he needs when God shows u to him is a little bit of cleaning hear n there n u are good to go.
ReplyDeleteLastly, if u need something badly sow something badly. Take a strong seed attach ur request to it and drop it on the alter at ur church and let God do d rest. But remember Annanias must Mary saphira, u can't be a bad girl inside and expect to Mary a good man inside. U want a good husband, prepare ur self to be a Godly wife. If u need to reach me for more info send me a mail to twinotter002@gmail.com
Too long an advice...simply put, shed ur baggage go to God in prayers and stop searching for a man. Search for God and he will give you the right man. It's not wrong to be prosperous. But don't seek for a man at ur own selfish interest rather let God open ur eyes to see ur husband, he could just be around u all this while but ur yes are closed to him, probably all he needs when God shows u to him is a little bit of cleaning hear n there n u are good to go.
ReplyDeleteLastly, if u need something badly sow something badly. Take a strong seed attach ur request to it and drop it on the alter at ur church and let God do d rest. But remember Annanias must Mary saphira, u can't be a bad girl inside and expect to Mary a good man inside. U want a good husband, prepare ur self to be a Godly wife. If u need to reach me for more info send me a mail to twinotter002@gmail.com
Hello, I think you need to pray to God, he is the one who can help you. Don't worry much because in the appropriate time he will reveal him to you, who know, you may see your husband outside your country. Stay calm and let God lead you.
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ReplyDeleteAll u need is Christ. Surrender urself to Him, seek ye first the Kingdom of God and every other thing shall be added unto u. U are to be searched for, and u do the choosing, not u searching for a man. For further inquiries, reach me on demerciful2011@yahoo.com
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DeleteSeek God's face while you cross-check your dress code,your lifestyle,the kind of friends you keep and your character,I mean your manner generally.Men do like to spend overnight with a beautiful woman as much they love to spend a lifetime with a woman whose beauty is beyond face
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