I know that m@sturbating has a lot of negative connotations surrounding it, mostly because of rude people thinking that you should be having s3x with someone OTHER than yourself in order to be happy.
Well, that’s not right. In fact, m@sturbating is actually a LOT better than having s3x.
I know it sounds ridiculous, but trust me on this one. There are so many positives to m@sturbating, it’s kind of dumb that s3x gets this awesome reputation while m@sturbating is left getting no love.Well… I’m sick of it. You do you, girl.
You might think that m@sturbating is lame and just a way to pass time until you can find a bae to have s#x with, but hear me out: m@sturbating is actually better than s3x. Like, way better. I know, it’s a controversial take but I mean it.
I’m not saying s#x is bad, but there are a ton of benefits to m@sturbating that you don’t get with s3x. If you want to know more,
check out these  reasons why m@sturbating is much better than s3x:
You Know Your Body Better Than Anyone Else
You know where your clit is, you know what feels good, and you know what doesn’t feel good. You are in complete control over what you do, as opposed to s3x when you might be a little bit out of your comfort zone.
You Can Go Slow  

Take your TIME, girl. There isn’t a rush to get anything done or finish because you’re alone and can do whatever you want! You can go slow, take breaks, watch p@rn, do whatever you want. It’s YOU time, and you don’t have to please anyone but yourself.
No Embarassing S3x Moments
Let’s be real: s3x can be embarrassing. You’re naked and vulnerable with someone, and even if they are your bae, it can get a little weird to open up with someone like that.
If you’re m@sturbating, it’s just you ~exploring your body~ and there is nothing to be embarrassed about.  There won’t be any weird or awkward silences, or gross bodily fluid (it HAPPENS).
No STD Risk
The BEST part about m@sturbating is that there is no risk of an STD. When you’re having s3x, there is always a little bit of a risk, but not with self love! There is a tiny risk of infection, though, if you’re using some weird lube or doing it with dirty hands, so be sure to wash your hands!
No Pregnancy Risk
No, you can’t get pregnant from m@sturbating. You would think it’s obvious…but a surprising amount of people are actually confused  about it. There is always a chance of pregnancy when having s3x, but not when you’re getting it on with yourself. So don’t feel bad about it!
You Can Actually Org@sm
You might not know this, but not many girls can orgasm while having penetrative s3x. I know, it sucks, but it’s true. When you are m@sturbating, you might actually be able to org@sm, as opposed to having s3x and never really getting there.
You Can Think About Anything You Want
Want to watch p@rn?
Go for it! What to fantasize about a fictional character? It’s all good! You can think about anything you want, and do whatever will make you feel good.