Relationship Matters: Read Interesting Reason Why Men Should Not Ask If She reached 0rgasm

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Due to the desire for men to make their partners achieve org asm, most have taken to asking this question after, or even during se x; Did you cum?

You might think you are asking out of concern and this is supposed to show how passionate you are about pleasing her, but here are 5 big reasons why this is a terrible idea, and what you should do instead.

1. She knows what you want to hear
Here’s the thing, A LOT of women fake org asms. And if they fake it to avoid hurting your feelings, they will lie when you ask for the same reason. They know that the only acceptable answer to this question is ‘Yes.’ If she says ‘no’, it will make you feel uncomfortable, and even pissed off.

2. It reeks of insecurity
When you ask her if she came, she will see you as insecure. And we all know women are not big fans of insecure men. It will forever affect the way she looks at you.

3. It is annoying
The only thing worse than asking a woman if she came is asking her every single time you have se x, or asking her multiple times during se x.

4. It puts her under pressure
A woman is less likely to org asm if she is not relaxed. If you keep asking her, she will understand that this is your aim and this will put her in a lot of pressure to achieve org asm.

5. She WILL NOT cum
Unless you know her body language and when she is about to cum, please stop randomly asking her questions like ‘did you cum?’ ‘Are you cumming?’ “How many times have you cum?’ Doing this will guarantee that she will not cum.

What to do instead;
Know her body. Learn what turns her on. Focus on pleasing her. Every woman has a tell for when they are cumming and all women are different. So, take the time to know her own tell. It is that thing (no matter how little) that changes. Once you know that, then you will never need to ask and she will never need to lie.

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